I hope you did not forget this?

She was like a wind

That many tried to capture her in a jar

But no one actually owned her

There was something wrong about her

 that attracted men of good nature....

So many times in life, we run after certain things that seem fit for us whether in terms of friendships, relationship or our future decisions. 

But have we stopped and thought what are those standards that we use to decide upon what is right or wrong for us.

Being loved by someone and loving them back is one important decision that we make in life but then when we set our standards straight why do we have failed relationships.

 Now, you would say things such as love fades, too many expectations and wrong perception of the person we fall in love with.

But do you really think love is small enough to be shaken by such reasons.

Why do we look at other person to feel completed or make them the soul source of our happiness? Why not find happiness within self and give abundant of it in back.

I go through various articles throughout the day where certain factors are talked about how to be good in relationships or how to love for a change.

 

But in spite of a vast pool of advice, what I strongly feel the first step is you need to love yourself, develop a passion that gives you a purpose to wake up every morning and love life.

I have been through such a stage in life where one person has been center of my universe but I did not realize I was burdening them with a very big responsibility to make me feel happy and loved. Shall it have made me happy, no readers, it complicated things cause I forgot its my sole responsibility to keep myself happy not others.

Readers, if you love someone or have friends, family that are dear to you give them the gift of taking your own responsibility to be happy, love life and give back love in abundant by truly loving yourself first.

Meditate, read, learn new things, challenge yourself, travel alone, play any sport and stay fit and you shall experience great joy which shall also serve your dear to heart relationships. 

Give yourself a chance readers by believing in yourself. Trust me we all have that one gift that awaits us to unleash it.

There was something wrong about her

that attracted men of good nature

She was so complete in herself,

That like a soothing wind gave freshness,

To whoever came in its way

Embracing all the beautiful things

 Like a glittery sky,

Showering beautiful reflections of happiness….

The Unworthy Promise To Self

Here comes 2017, the year filled with lots of hope, happiness, an endless wait to find someone you can be passionate for and in the way finding yourself.

Readers, resolutions, you are very well aware of this word. A word, that represents a promise to self to do things the right way. But wait for a second, for how long we are able to follow those promises that we make to ourselves. And do you really think there is any such thing needed that we need to bind ourselves with to follow a better life.

With all my good and bad experience in life, I have learned until and unless a person doesn’t feel passionate about a cause or a feeling, no one can force them to.

There she was standing by the window,

Waiting for the rain to stop

Her fear of getting wet

Getting judged by strangers

Never let her truly enjoy the feeling of being free.

All we need is to make a promise to self to live truly and freely with compassion. Making resolutions and binding ourselves with chains, has it not been enough to bind ourselves with fear of being judged that we again chain ourselves with resolutions.

If you feel strongly about something, why to wait for a single day in a year to make temporary traditions that are eventually going to be on the top of our guilt list. Let’s do it today and tell the world we were here.

Nothing has changed in these years to follow

The same strangers walking by the door

Still the rain was calling her as the old times

She draped her silk sari around her waist

Spread her arms open

And stepped out….

Let’s live freely and give back abundant love and care such that we do not need resolutions to feel passionate about something. Cause if you love yourself you can truly nurture your loved ones with care and unconditional support.