Music and me!!!!

Hey readers,
                   I hope you are doing great.This week has been really busy and full of surprises.Recently while driving my car , I noticed one strange thing.It's been 8 yrs I have been driving ,but nvr paid attention.It's the music guys I'm talking about.
Music is the soul of life.Whenever some music comes up on the radio , I just feel happy and lively
which makes the driving experience crazy and awesome.Have you ever  experienced it?

I believe every song carries a flash card of memories , some sweet and some bad.While I prefer enjoying more of the good. Just imagine you are driving a car and at once a fast track comes up, the speed automatically increases.A crazy feeling runs down your spine.Lol!! And if the weather is good , It's just like a topping on the ice.I'm sure you must have felt the same.Do let me know if you share any crazy experience while driving due to the music or weather.
I'm going to publish a surprise for you soon.Till then smile lot, love much and stay crazy cause "Zindagi na milegi dobara".Love you readers.

Need For Skill Developement

 Hey Readers, 
                       I have seen many institutes opened up mostly engineering institutions which offer lucrative offers to those who enroll themselves in the college with placement offers in the companies like HCL,Wipro , TCS,  Infosys. And at the end of four years,what the students discover is that they are not skilled enough to even clear the basic exams which which these companies conduct .I feel very saddened by this situation .A parent who invests upto 5 lacs in the  engineering study with a hope that their kid would stand up one day and hold a degree of an engineer get what at the end ,a piece of paper which is also not enough for him/her to get a job.

The only thing that shouldn't be done is "Talking".I feel we should help our budding engineers to develop skills that will help them to gain a good job .In the very beginning ,a child should be groomed well and should be taught not to follow a goat walk.
They should be helped with the aid of counselors to identify their area of interests .If  Sachin Tendulkar was asked  to study engineering , we would have 
lost the best player of the century .I,as a student knew my best interests to pursue journalism and literary studies for my college level, However due to
peer pressure I had to go for engineering.Although I thank my parents for believing in me to be an engineer but if I pursued my interests , I would have 
been able to contribute in a better way for the development of society.
There is a big difference between "Have" and "Could have".Only one word creates all distinction.We need to develop and broaden our horizons and move forward to follow our inner voice , our interests and make it our profession cause" WHEN WE DO SOMETHING WE LOVE , A MAGIC IS INSTILLED AND CREATED".
I would like to request all those people who are planning their future , to stop for a second , think and follow their dreams.
We need to develop skills to take India to that level to compete and stand besides the superpower of the world .

How am I supposed to live my life without you!

I personally have got a big effect on my life from my father's side.He has always been a tomb of a strict , idle personality which not usually had smile on his face but when he smiles/d  it seems everything is perfect, in place and the way it should be.

You cannot rely on anyone but your dad cause he is the one who taught you to walk , how to fight the bullies in school, how to drive the car and enjoy and live life in it's true meaning.I can never think or imagine my life without him .

But as it is life , it teaches you how to LIVE.I'm living my life without you Dad.Everytime I see a girl holding her Dad's finger I remember those times when you taught me how to cross the road .I envy her/him and complain god about being so unfair to me that you are there right in front of me and I cannot call you out and standing on this never ending road with no one to rely on.

In life you always need someone to rely on, it can be your family, friends .It's like the whole world is walking with you but inside you are all alone and waiting for that finger which will help you to stand up and lead you to your path.

Every day I question myself , before going to sleep "How I'm supposed to live my life without you " and a long deep silence comes and disappoints  me.

A practical approach to Love!

To love someone passionately and give them everything you have is not every one's  cu p of tea .Anyone can promise "I will love you more than anything else "but to give that it takes a lot of courage, a lot of patience , a lot of trust on your own self  that no matter what you will give them so much love that things can never wrong.

I know readers you must be thinking , why is it that we have to do everything and not expect from the other person.I have answer for this , a very simple answer , in a relationship , we have to give our best half and the other person gives the other half .But what about our relationship with ourselves .We have to give our best to ourselves.

Give so much love to someone, that no matter what you will always rule their heart.be such an idle for yourself that nothing can bend you cause at some point you will always know you gave your best .

  

Men and women have always been different , expecting from your partner that they will always behave in the same way  you do , is always senseless . 

Changing Times!

Hey readers,
        Today I'm  feeling like sharing some thoughts that have surrounded my old school thoughts and have been forcing me to change my own thinking .Thinking of those old notions that love is a fairy tale and once you are in love everything is perfect, sky is glittering and music is always playing in the background.(That's coz I'm no more 16!)
                   Being in love doesn't mean just saying those three words "I LOVE YOU" or kissing or hugging each other , going out for movies ,hanging out .It's much more than that .I have seen couples trying to pose being perfect by calling out different names like "baby, jaan, shona" and I' not ashamed to say I said the same words to my loved one.But what makes me thinking is this really called Love.

Love is being with each other , for each other in times lows and high .Being the complete partner  with no fear to share anything .Having such an understanding that yes whatever happens you would never misunderstand  your loved one or leave them alone when they need you.
Lately I have been hating the idea of Love.Expecting  someone to understand you, give you that importance in life and craving for their attention when you know that you stand nowhere coz feelings fade with time.
It's so different and disappointing.You make someone the center of your life and you are not even a dot in their life.Never ever make someone the reason of your happiness cause it only depends on you- your happiness and sorrows.

Crazy Life !

Life is too short , not to appreciate the little 
things life has given us .We run after success and pray to god .But have we 
taken out two minutes from our hectic lives to thank those who have helped
us in giving meaning to our life, have we stopped and given them a token of love
, a token of care from our fast forward life.It doesn't cost anything though!
If I talk about myself , I have always treated the ones close to me more than anything 

else in this world.Although I didn't realised their importance  when I almost lost them.But thanks to god
,I won't ever let that happen.
So  Readers , please it's a request , from your hectic life please take out two minutes to thank  them , 
love them ,care for them those
who make even a bit of difference in your life , it can be anyone  your parents ,
friends, Lover ,a guard standing at your colony gate , A small kid whose 
smile brings a smile on your face.
Will be back soon ....Love you readers.

Being Independent

Hey dear readers, missed you guys a lot...
Had super fun on Diwali , burnt crackers(I know we need to keep our city pollution free , but sometimes bacha banna toh chalta hai) . It's my first diwali and the first  job.Gave my salary to mom on Dhanteras and had a proud feeling .Yes, I'm something .It's such a proud feeling , when your family appreciates you and you know you are doing something for them.
Being independent is such a nice feeling.
But what do you guys think , being independent in life means .
Being independent doesn't mean being all alone , not caring about others and forgetting your roots.
An independent person is one who takes and walks with  the whole society  towards a better future . Being a change in the Indian society is not a small deal readers , making it more broad minded and ethical to live in .Being independent is walking your head held up high with love and respect for others.Ego is a far word that doesn't even come near an independent person.Ego destroys it all whether it's a relationship ,family relations or friendships.

I would like to be such an independent person who is known for the good deeds, respected and loved by everyone and foremost would pray to god , to make me so much successful in life that if someone comes on my door empty handed, shall not go without food , respect , love .I would love to live the life of my dreams.
I know these words sound too big , but dear readers have you ever thought , being a good human being in life (free from anger , jealousy, dissapointment, ego ) is a more bigger task than being successful.It's not that hard to be successful in life , if you have dedication .But not forgetting your roots and being down to earth and loving and respecting everyone is a big deal.
This diwali , I want to pray to god, to bless me and help me being an asset to the family, society and my nation.
Enjoying these learning years of my life ....This roller coaster ride was once very difficult for me to understand , but now I/m loving it..Everything happens for a reason.
It's 5:50 am in the morning.Need to go readers and feel the fresh air.
Till then keep enjoying because "ZINDAGI NA MILEGI DOBARA " .